Instagram. I love it. Don’t you? But if you follow your teenagers on there, along with the duck faces and mirror shots, you see a whole lot of:
#likeforlike
#commentforcomment
#followforfollow
Teenagers scream out for affirmation, and in turn they give it to others. Just look at how popular it is.
At first I thought this was a pretty silly idea. Are you so desperate for people to “like” and comment your pictures, that you will use a hashtag and then like a bunch of other strangers’ stuff?
But then I realized:
- It achieves their goals.
- So it’s really not that bad of an idea.
- We kind of do that as blogging youth pastors.
So what do you guys think? I’m thinking that for every like, comment, or share that I get on a post either here or on YouthMin.Org, I’m going to go to that person’s blog and show them some love too. I blog so that people can read it and interact with me, and if someone DOES (which can be pretty rare…ha. crickets), then I want to interact with THEM. Act out what I believe about blogging being a communal thing.
My friend Jeremy over at 78Productions started a “Commenting Army.” I am one of about 15 bloggers who vow to read and comment every week on each other’s stuff. You don’t have to make such a commitment BUT I encourage you to reciprocate some of the love you receive on YOUR blog.
Hi Heather:
Welcome to the Blogging Army. Glad to have aboard. You may be interested in seeing my post from yesterday (Monday, 02.25.2013):
http://cjpwisdomandlife.com/2013/02/25/rules-of-engagement/ For my take start reading at:
That’s why it is so important to filter what we say online.
Great point. And while we may be too busy to comment on absolutely everything, it definitely pays to give to others the very thing we would like them to give us. :)
I’ve been enjoying your posts, by the way.
Great pointers. Meet em where they can be met.